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June 2017

If you don’t want to get wet…

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People are funny.

Yesterday we were at a splash pad in a nearby town.  The kind of splash pad with the guns that shoot water and buckets that dump on you at any given time, plus random water shooting out of the ground. Fun, right?

I had the 4 kids in swimsuits, towels packed, sunscreen…on half of the kids ūüôā ¬†We were ready!!

We pull up and the 2 big kids run out of the car and start playing.  While we get the 2 little ones out of their car seats, and get over there, we see another family under a little pavilion on the edge of the splash pad.

As I am finishing getting sunscreen on the other 2 kids, I hear this lady saying, “Seriously? ¬†You did that on purpose!” And I look and she is yelling this at my 5 year old! ¬†Well, if you have kids, the mama bear feeling can come out when someone else is correcting or yelling at your kids! Especially when it seems unmerited.

So, I stop what I am doing and say, “excuse me ma’am – what happened?” ¬†She said – “HE SPRAYED ME WITH THE WATER ON PURPOSE!”. ¬†I slowly say , “No, he is a kind boy, and he is simply playing at a water park. ¬†The gun happened to be pointed at you and you were standing where it sprayed when it went off, he did not do this on purpose”. ¬†Then I tell my son – “Jaxon – go apologize to her”.

When he goes over there, and says sorry to her, she says – “oh, it’s okay honey.”

At this point – I am super confused.

This lady is at a water park.

She has just screamed at me and my son.

Now we are all supposed to act like nothing happened.

Let me remind you, we were at a water park!

Well, this incident, like many that happen, got me thinking about our spiritual life. ¬†How many times do we get “sprayed with the water” by life, and we are shocked when bad things hit us?

What I mean is that we often put ourselves in situations that are not good, or situations that are hard, and then we are upset or surprised when we things don’t go our way.

How often do I set myself up to be hurt and then get mad when I am hurt?

How many times do I keep going back to….. a bad habit, or an unhealthy friendship, or turning to food when I am stressed, or spending an unhealthy amount of time on social media, or a choosing to be involved in a work situation that isn’t good? ¬†How many times do I eat way too much of something that I know will make me feel yucky the next day?

Each of these things can leave us feeling inadequate, frustrated, or not good enough.  

However, each time I face these things, I hope things will be different. ¬†But they aren’t. ¬†I still leave feeling bad or negative, and basically like I have been sprayed in the face with water!!

It shouldn’t surprise us like it does, but here is the funny part…I am surprised EVERY time it happens!! ¬†Sadly, I find myself continuing to go back and open myself up to get hurt!! ¬†Why?

I started to realize that I had a choice.  I could continue to do the same things, expecting a different result, OR I could change something, and avoid the situation that was causing me so much harm, and try something NEW!  What? I could spend some time in prayer and change some actions to hope for a different result!

Lesson: ¬†Don’t stand in the way of a water sprayer and expect not to get sprayed!

I am not saying we can avoid every bad thing that comes our way.  But what I am saying, is we can take some action steps to not set ourselves up to get hurt or frustrated or feel like a failure quite as easily!!  And if we do get sprayed by a life situation, we can not get mad at the situation that is spraying us,  if we had a choice to stand there in the first place!

There is power in choice, and we are capable of making choices that benefit us and those around us, rather than hurt us and frustrate us.  Sometimes we just need to move.

Maybe, just maybe if we move out of the way, or stand in a new spot, or try a new path, or adopt a new habit, we can stay dry!!

I think I will try this today…

–Rachel Curtis

Founder of P31 Fitness

It’s not working!

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How many of us have started a fitness or weight loss program, and after a few days or weeks of HARD WORK, we find ourselves saying these words…”It’s not working!”

Maybe we have dedicated ourselves to a new way of eating and working out. ¬†We have planned, prepped, cleaned out, set everything out exactly as we are told. ¬†Then for a few days we do really well with our new “diet” plan. ¬†We are eating what we were “supposed” to eat, we are drinking our water, we are exercising regularly, and THEN we get on the scale……

The number staring back at us is NOT what we imagined it to be! ¬†It didn’t drop! ¬†Or at least it didn’t drop as much as we thought it would be at this point!

We put in the work, we followed the “rules” and now all we feel is that it just isn’t working. ¬†We feel defeated. ¬†We feel sad. ¬†We feel frustrated. ¬†We feel like we want to give up….again.

If you have ever been in this cycle – it’s time we change the way we are thinking, or we may just continue to be disappointed again and again. ¬†This is no way to live. ¬†Believe me, I have been there, I have done that, and it is frustrating!! Many times I have said those words out loud – “It is just not working!”.

Maybe it’s not with working out or our weight loss – but maybe it is with something in our jobs, or our home, or a relationship…we want to throw up our hands and say “it’s just not working!¬† ¬†We have all said it, thought it, or may be thinking it right now.

Take heart and let’s look to see what IS working in our lives!! ¬†There is probably a lot more that IS working than isn’t working.

But here is what I have found in my own struggles, I usually need to look to see what may be going on at a deeper level! ¬†Usually my “issue” I am trying to fix or work through is caused by another thing that I have got to work through! ¬†Example – “I want to get in shape or lose weight or eat better”. ¬†Therefore I start to workout, change how I am eating, clean out my pantry, and do all the “right” things. ¬†However, a stressful situation happens, I stop going to workout, feel the need to want to stuff my face when I am stressed, etc and I proceed to self-sabotage and fall off my get in shape wagon. ¬† Been there? ¬†Now, if I will figure out the WHY behind wanting to stuff my face or run away and hide, or whatever it might be – I find that often there is a deeper emotional reason, then I can get somewhere.

I have to stop trying to bandage the problem, and instead I need to start to deal with the tough stuff!! ¬†THAT is not always fun or easy, but I am telling you that it is the ONLY way to fix an “outside” problem.

So, what does this look like?  It looks like asking myself questions like:

“If I don’t go to workout, will I feel better or worse?”

“What is overeating food really doing for me?”

“What am I trying to accomplish by eating too much?”

“What am I feeling inside that is causing me to want to self-destruct?”

“Who am I and who do I want to be?”

“What is driving me to eat when I know I am not hungry?”

“Is this path of life working for me?”

“What am I focusing on that is causing me to get off track?”

“What can I do to make a new path instead of running into the same brick wall all of the time?”

Write down your answers, and think through what is really going on!  If you are like me Рyou may find that the answers to these questions can help you to fix some of the outside things you are trying to accomplish.

These things I mentioned are things that I have done in my life to find freedom in many of the areas I have struggled with in the past.  I am not a psychologist, but I will tell you that my struggles were REAL and this was the only way that I could get out of the pattern and bad cycles I found myself in for years!!!!  I can now feel freedom from learning more about myself and making better choices because I am seeing things differently!! Focusing up on Him instead of at the problem! 

So, if you are feeling like things aren’t “working” in your life, (whether it be your workout program, your weight loss, your food intake, or anything), instead of continuing to try things and getting frustrated when they aren’t working or bringing the results we want, let’s see if we can get a little deeper so that we can gladly say -“IT IS WORKING”! ¬†Sound nice? ¬†I think so!!!

–Rachel Curtis

P31 Fitness founder

 

Worth more than a number

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Have you ever had an AWFUL day because of a number on a scale?
Are you one of those women that weighs herself faithfully every day, wearing the same thing, weighing at the same time, and hoping for a different number every day?  If you are, you are not alone!

However, I need to ask you one question – what are you trying to prove?¬† What would happen if you hit that “magic” number that is floating around in your head?¬† Will you all of the sudden be satisfied?¬† Will that prove you are finally “it”?¬† Take a minute and re-evaluate.

The scale is just a number!  Sometimes we need to hear this because of our obsessive tendencies to do all we can to make that number different.

Start to think about other things:

1) Are you eating good quality foods?

2) How are your portions?
3) Are you eating for the right reasons?
4) Are you working out to improve your levels of fitness and health?
5) Are you sleeping enough?
6) Are you taking care of your emotional health?

7) How are your relationships in life?
These are the things we need to spend time focusing on each day!
So…we challenge you,¬†STAY OFF THE SCALES…
You are WORTH more than a number!  

Do we REALLY need to take care of ourselves?

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Why is it important that we take care of ourselves?  Does it really matter?

As women, we tend to be givers.¬† Whatever we set our minds to, we usually try to give our best:¬† jobs, family, daily tasks, and much more.¬† However, sometimes, we don’t do the same for ourselves.
Maybe when it comes to your own health – you may just feel burned out, tired, or like you don’t want to give your best in this area. You may even feel that you want to quit, give up, stop in your tracks, and throw your hands in the air in surrender.¬† At some point, all women struggle with¬†this battle inside.
The good news¬†is there is always¬†hope.¬† Hope in God, and in the life He has given to us. Hope that if we will take care of our “temples”, that it will be a blessing in the end.
Satan knows that if he can attack women in the area of their own health and wellness, we won’t be able to be who we need to be for others.
However, we have a DAILY CHOICE to fight, to be strong, and stand against the lies that sometimes creep in our minds.
Repeat after me,¬†“I will be the best I can be for God’s purposes, and His ways.¬† I am here to live for Him, and be a blessing to others.¬† I am not going to sink into those feelings.¬† I will take care of myself and give 100% so as I can be 100%!”
Only when we are placing ourselves as a priority, can we be the best for those around us each day!
YOU ARE WORTH IT!